We need to talk?

I'm not a horribly straight forward person, not as much as I would like to be.  I'm working on it, every year I resolve to be better and sometime I am and sometimes I lie awake at 3 a.m. being eaten alive by whatever I'm thinking about it.  Truly it is about 50/50, can go either way.

So here's the thing.  I've got something on my mind.  It it has been on my mind off and on for probably a year or so now.

Its one of those potentially life changing, major change ideas.  But see, the change isn't exactly mine, indirectly it is but its not up to me.

I think this idea has the potential to change our lives, potentially in a really good and much needed way, I'm just not too sure how to approach the topic.  I don't want the other person to go defensive, I want them to hear me out and think about it.

So I've been working on talking to God about it.  See my previous post to see what I mean.

It has been going something like:
Me: God, do you want me to really think about this?
God: yes...
Me: God, do you want me to bring it up to this person?
God: yes...
Me: Now?
God: no, not yet...

*sigh* for as bad as I am at speaking up, I'm even worse at waiting but for this I will listen to God, I will wait, and I will keep asking when is a good time, when he has prepared the other person's heart and  I know in my heart he will let me know.